For the Mom Who Doesn’t Get a Break

My husband works. A lot. Meaning I’m with my kids….always.

I beg for a moments peace. For just a minute to collect my thoughts in silence. To tackle a project that seems near impossible with tiny curious hands grabbing and pulling.⠀

To breath.⠀

So why is it that when that shiny golden opportunity presents itself for TWO WHOLE childless hours, that my heart suddenly aches at the thought of it. That I instantly start rationalizing all the reasons I don’t need some time to myself. That I lie to myself and say I can do it all. ⠀

Why?⠀

Motherhood is crazy like that. You can simultaneously be desperate for some time alone —- and desperate to keep your tiny crazies with you at every possible second. ⠀

Dear anxiety ridden girl…it is okay. I’m a better mother when I can quiet the crazy swirly mom brain every now and then and recoup. As women, and especially as mothers, we put ourselves so far at the bottom of the list that we don’t often even recognize our own needs. That something doesn’t have to be a “life or death” situation to be considered a “need.” You don’t have to wait until the next time you fall apart to finally take care of heart and your mind.

I want you ladies to check in with yourselves. Like REALLY check in. What are some of your needs that you have been neglecting at the risk of inconveniencing others?? You are worth taking care of. You are worth an hour alone, a walk outside, a hot cup of coffee, a long shower, or a fresh haircut. You are worth prioritizing. 😘